Archive for April, 2011

Sorry Everyone I’m Not Mark Zuckerberg

April 22, 2011

To the VC, Incubator, Angel, Blog Writer, Conference, and Cynic nearest you,

I just want to let you know that I’m really sorry that I’m not Mark Zuckerberg like you had dreamed. I know when we talked you had high hopes that I would be, and if you had just asked me at the beginning of the conversation, I could have told you.

I’m really sorry that I didn’t drop out of college. My brother did though – I could introduce you to him.  I didn’t get very good grades either because I was constantly trying to start a business – sorry about that. I didn’t go to an Ivy League school either – really sorry. Dang it. Sorry.

I’m sorry that I didn’t get the perfect product on my first try. I know how much you’d like me to just get a grand slam on the first pitch but that’s not really me. So sorry. I mean we’ve built 5-products in the past 18 months and created a business that currently supports seven people with no VC funding. I know that doesn’t really mean anything and I’m really really sorry for even thinking about it.

I know it would be great if I were curly haired and Jewish but I’m bald and Mormon. I’m sorry about that stuff. The hair is really out of my control, I know you’d like me to let it grow and rock a bandana but that’s not me. The Mormon thing is tough too – sorry (well not really). I think the House of Isreal is awesome though. Go Jews! That came out all wrong…sorry Jewish Angels, Bloggers and cynics.

I’m really sorry I’m not single and don’t stay up all night drinking beer and doing drugs. I have a wife and a baby that I’m told reminds people of Hugo Chavez as a child.  I often stay up all night working (like tonight) but I never quite hit Ballmer Peak (Mormon thing again, sigh). I feel horrible. I have as stable a life as you possibly could while running a startup, and I’m not a horrible guy to hang out with. I should have told you that at the beginning. Totally un-investable.

Actually I’m really sorry I don’t code very often. OK pretty much not at all. I know I know, I’ve seen the pitchforks and torches before – you want me out of the Valley.  Plus I’m sorry that I partner with guys that do and are awesome at it. Too bad I don’t have any real skills that a startup could ever, ever, ever, ever possibly use. Just overhead, I know. No non-technical founders are ever, ever, ever, ever, ever successful.

Sorry I didn’t boast that my company would make you a $100MM or tell you how amazing I am. I like people in Silicon Valley that are more humble and let their success speak for themselves.  Sorry I didn’t beat my drums until your eardrum burst. I should have known better. The next time we meet I’ll do a Haka for you and bring a spear to stab someone. Should have known that would show my dedication to the business.

Sorry that I didn’t start my company when I was 19 and now I’m 28! When I was 18 I was on an island in the middle of the Pacific ocean for 2-years learning Maori, and trying to help people improve their lives (I wasn’t kidding about the Haka). I know that the lessons I learned getting doors slammed in my face have zero application for my startup. Sorry. Sorry for going to work for EAfor 4-years. What a waste. I knew that HotOrNot was gonna be huge – I should have jumped on board. Fail.

Sorry that my co-founders and business partners don’t generally hate me. Probably a bad sign that I still share an office with the guy that started Vaporware Labs with me even though it’s been over a year since we split. We should have yelled and screamed and sued each other. It is an action item for me to make progress on that for the next time I see you – which will probably be never.

I’m sorry that doing a startup got so cool all of a sudden. When I quit my job in 2009 in the middle of the modern depression, I was just trying to do what I thought was right. 10 different business pivots later here we are. Just horrible I know.


So if you couldn’t tell, I just wanted to say how sorry I am that I’m not Mark Zuckerberg. And if I could be – I wouldn’t. This is not to say what he’s done isn’t anything short of amazing – because it is. This is not to say I don’t hope the best for the guy and that he gets double rainbows every single day because, I do.

This is just an FYI that we’ll be over here plugging along, trying to build something awesome and successful. In the meantime, good luck finding that guy because if that’s what you want, you’ve come to the wrong place. So sorry. Just really really sorry.


Evolution Of A Startup Idea

April 20, 2011

One thing I’ve noticed talking to people about Commonred over the past 6 months is how the messaging has shifted. As customers use the product, as we meet with domain experts, as you think and think and think more about the product, the vision and what you’re trying to accomplish becomes easier to describe.

I saw an interesting example of this on Friday. @Arrington retweeted a link to a guy who is trying to get some attention for his startup called QuickVanz. I must say I absolutely respect this guy’s husstle and attempts to get the ear of tech’s elite as he messages basically everyone of influence in tech trying to find people that might be interested in the idea he’s working on.

Along the way you see his idea evolve. This is how it must be or he’s not doing it right. Even the name has evolved. The idea at times looks to have completely shifted, and then comes back.

It’s a quick read. I’ll list them in chronological order until you get to Arrington’s tweet at the bottom. Watch the dates of the posts.

How To Develop World Class Business Ideas

April 18, 2011

I take a lot of random meetings. I meet with entrepreneurs, founders, and new friends that come to our meetup. Some of these produce great partnerships, most do not. Some have immense direct benefit to me and my business, but most do not. Considering I built a site to get out of meetings this practice probably seems like a contradiction but it’s not and I will explain.

I take almost any meeting for a couple of reasons in order of importance:

1. I know what’s like to have no one care about your startup and ideas. If I can just be helpful enough to encourage someone not to give up and keep pushing for another month, then it’s worth an hour to me. That energy motivates me to be better.

2. The ability to sit for an hour and brainstorm a completely different concept or idea, learn about someone’s business, and inject my background is very rewarding and beneficial.

3. If you get access to enough pieces to the puzzle you eventually start to see patterns the right ones to use for your business.

Let me give you two examples just from Friday.

*I met with a guy and we brainstormed and drew out the new layout for his website on my whiteboard. He then said he wanted to make an introduction video for the homepage but had a small budget. One month ago I met with a guy whose company makes quality cartoon intro videos on the cheap through crowd sourcing. They’re a perfect match for each other. Everyone wins (especially me – I feel good).

*I had lunch with a guy who said he wanted to give me a million dollar idea for FREE. After listening I wasn’t sure his idea is worth a million bucks, but a small piece of his idea works perfectly to solve a problem we’re having on a current project. I told him thanks for the business idea, but I would use a small piece of it for something else.

This kind of thing happens ALL THE TIME. When we’re getting exposed to lots of people we see different perspectives, encounter foreign problems or solutions, and are able to apply those to our own business needs.

This video called WHERE GOOD IDEAS COME FROM is something I’ve watched a dozen times. There’s no better way to explain how this concept works, and how it can lead you to world class ideas.

People In Silicon Valley We Should Emulate

April 11, 2011

There are a lot of things people can say about that aren’t nice that are also probably true. I’m cheap, I’m inpatient, I’m bald, the list goes on for days. One thing I hope no one ever says about me is that I’m dismissive or unapproachable. I’ve met so many people like that in Silicon Valley it’s sad. I won’t go into great detail, but the guys that are humble and totally helpful are few and far between. I will tell you about three of the five most humble guys I’ve met/spoken/emailed with including Naval Ravikant (AngelList), Jeff Smith (Smule), and Sassan Golafshan (Form Fitness Founder in Palo Alto).

I’ve had limited interaction with Naval, but the little time I have spent emailing him I’ve been hugely impressed. First off I don’t expect someone of his caliber to even return my email or Tweet (this is the norm apparently), but when they do with thought and meaning, it really means a lot – because it’s rare. My brief experience with Naval was that I could have been running a $100MM or $1MM company and I would have received the same email. He didn’t treat me differently based on who I am, or the lack of who I am.

Jeff Smith, CEO at Smule is another guy that exemplifies this. He sits with you and thinks hard about what you’re saying, asks tough questions, but looks for great answers. Jeff has been an instrumental supporter to our startup since the very early days of Vaporware Labs. Once I asked Jeff what I could do to repay him for all that he’s helped me with; his response was “Nothing. That’s not the point. I don’t want anything.” I would literally do anything to help him.

I had lunch with Sassan Golafshan a few weeks ago. Sassan is the founder of Form Fitness off University in Palo Alto. He came from humble begins as his family was forced to flee Iran in the early 1980′s due to the uprising. He’s part of an unorganized group I like to call Silicon Valley’s “Iranian Mafia” (I will blog about them soon). For no reason except love of entrepreneurship, he has opened up his Rolodex to me, offering introductions and invitations to some of the smartest entrepreneurs in the valley. Funny thing is that this open and happy spirit is present and obvious where you go to his gym or talk to his employees. Just read some of their online reviews.

And this brings me to my reason for the post. I got an email today from a guy whose startup has had modest success to date. Last year I wrote a glowing article about how cool I thought their company was and how people should watch it. I recently met a mutual friend who offered to make an introduction to the founder. Below is the exchange between us. I have removed he and his company’s name.

If this email had come from Kevin Rose then I could understand it. Remember that 99% of SV big timers respond this way. But when you’re not it’s much harder to understand. Plus if you’re a genuinely cool person you don’t respond this way regardless (ie – Naval, Jeff, or Sassan).

There are lots of other lessons to learn here like poor community management, terrible company PR (if I published the names), sales/Business Development (I was going to intro him to a potential Fortune 500 client), and bad Karma overall.

But ultimately this just reaffirms in my mind the need to never become like this no matter how big or small (more likely) I become, and writing a blog post about it keeps me honest.

Your company (website) needs to chill out. I’m talking to you Quora.

April 8, 2011

A couple of months ago I posted a question on Quora called, “What’s the best way to get a meeting with Never Eat Alone author Keith Ferrazzi?” For those that don’t know him, he’s one of the leading relationship experts in the world. His book Never Eat Alone was a big inspiration for our project Commonred.

That’s when the Quora underlords (perhaps a bit strong) joined the conversation. How/why they found this question I’ll never know. Rest assured it’s way down at the bottom of the moderation list.

The question stands: where is the line for a company to maintain the integrity of their product’s purpose, and just chill out? Not sure but Quora crossed it on this one. My personal philosophy is to always air on the side of being chill because in the grand scheme of life, how important really is your startup?

See the response and conversation below. A small ‘big ups’ to Chelsea Henry for responding in the first place. She’s merely a pawn in the great game of startup chess. Don’t worry Chelsea, I’m not even a piece on the board so at least you’re that much.

“You Can Never Go Back (to your job)”

April 7, 2011

I had a great weekend visiting with family and friends in Utah. Twice per year we attend General Conference – two days worth of LDS meetings where we listen to spiritual leaders talk about how we should be better husbands, fathers, and brothers and sisters to the people in the world around us. Very inspiring.

My family and I also usually spend some time with my parents. My parents have always been very involved in my life. My mom helped me get my eagle scout, and get my first business in high school off the ground (painting hop scotch on driveways. yep). My dad attended many a teacher-parent meeting that weren’t during the scheduled times (I was that kind of student).

But when I quit my job in mid-2009, the future and the economy looked bleak. I remember a conversation with my dad where he seriously questioned if quitting my job with no incoming revenue stream awaiting me was a good idea. These were sound criticisms. I didn’t have a great plan. The idea I planned to work on fell apart in 3-months.

But after about 6-months, (and a couple of closed deals) when it was clear we wouldn’t starve, his advice changed to “You’re doing it. You can do it.” It’s now been about 18 months since I quit and while talking with him this weekend, I mentioned a doomsday scenario where if worst comes to worst I could go get a job again. He then responded with the most direct and true thing anyone has said to me in a long time: “You can never go back.”

The Background

He then proceeded to tell me a story of when he was working for a major advertising agency in Florida. He asked for a part-time leave of absence which allowed him to pursue a real estate development project he was hoping to land and would eventually quit his job to pursue. Unfortunately the deal fell through and he had to return to work full-time at the agency after about 6-months.

The problem he said was that he had tasted how good the outside and self-employed world felt like, and returning to the agency only left a huge whole in his professional stomach. My dad eventually started his own agency which boasted many successful accounts including Jack Nicklaus’ golf courses in the Southern United States.

Standing in the driveway this past weekend, he explained that I could never work at a big company in the same capacity as before because I would never be satisfied. As a result and regardless of the obstacles, I would just have to “make it work and figure it out.”

As entrepreneurs it’s natural to want to hedge. But hedging is a sign of an inexperienced talent. If you don’t burn your boats, you run the risk of always leaving that door open. I’ve received advice about not hedging many times by well-known CEOs. But this is the first time it’s really sunk in.

Not that I ever planned to go back, but the small chance of it happening went to zero chance within about 10 seconds.